Confidence and self esteem can come and go. It is never constant, circumstances change as you meet new challenges.
Grow your confidence
I was very struck with this book jacket when I saw it at the recently opened Basquiat Exhibition at Tate Modern. Too many people live their life in fear. So whatis holding you back? Is it issues with confidence and self esteem. Continue reading
Change with confidence
This season is changing slowly. And then suddenly the right conditions occur and change happens quickly, leaves fall, temperatures fall and we’re into winter.
This year the seasons have been slow to change. The leaves are still reluctantly turning yellow; some trees are only just starting to think about it; others have done what they are meant to do and are now stripped bare, showing off their winter profile. Continue reading
We are all fearful from time to time. Can I do it? Will I make a fool of myself? Will I fail? Will I let someone down?
Can you think of a time when you were really fearful? I remember as a child running down our dark driveway to the house. I focussed on the outside light that my mother had left on and ran fit to burst towards that light, thinking some Thing was out to get me. But each and every time I ran past through that fear and made it home. Continue reading
I heard someone saying I want to buy that dress then that will make me more than I am.
Fair enough. And it makes you feel good, whatever works for you. However, I would just say that how long will that be before you would like another dress, another job, house, holiday what will it take to make you more than you are. Makeovers are more than a change on the outside. Changing on the inside will last, if you are looking for change from the outside you may be disappointed. Continue reading
I believe in me
As a child we believe we can do almost anything. We could fly to the moon, the stars and back again, be a dancer, a singer, build bridges, be a doctor, a teacher. Anything. We know then what we enjoy and what we are good at. Continue reading